Moving Abroad: How to Deal with the Kids

Moving abroad is a big step for an individual or couple but even bigger when you are taking your kids as well. Here are some tips to consider before deciding to move abroad with your family

Your Children’s Education.

Once a child is in high school the effect of moving abroad will have a drastic affect on their education: and American child who excels in Spanish won’t be happy to find that Spanish is not a common option in Australian high schools. Younger children will generally find a move less stressful – particularly if they have siblings that they get on well with.

Children’s Exposure to a New Culture and Language.

Moving to a non-English speaking country can be a great chance for children to become bilingual. Make sure you take advantage and don’t cocoon them in the English-speaking expat community.

Effect on Relatives Staying Behind.

Are your children close to relatives who are staying behind? Think about how you are going to deal with the resulting anger and fear? Make sure you think through how to manage this so you don’t get involved in an unofficial “tug of love”!

Older Children May Want to Stay At Home.

These days children often stay at home into their 20’s. However if you are relocating then older children may have to become independent in a hurry. Alternatively children of high school age may want to board in order to finish their high school education in their home country.

Your Spouse May Not Have a Work Permit.

Depending of the conditions of your visa or right to work in a country your partner may not necessarily be legally able to work. Or they may be able to work but not have their qualification recognized or the language skills necessary. This can be a great opportunity for a career break, career change or even a new baby, but think through the options first.